Nimen Hao!!! I hope everyone had
spectacular weeks and is just enoying life in general!! :D
First off HAPPY LATE BIRTHDAY TO
AUNTIE INGRID AND GRANDPA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry that is so late Auntie
Ingrid! And Grandpa i hope you had a fun day!
Quote of the Week:
"There is a large difference between sharing
information and offering salvation. :) Todd Christofferson
This is an amazing quote, and 100% correct! You
can recite the first discussion as much as you want, but until you pay attention
to the fact that you are teaching PEOPLE not lessons, YOU WILL NOT BE EFFECTIVE!
We are to "INVITE others to come unto Christ by HELPING them receive the
restored gospel..." and we cannot INVITE and HELP if we do not realize the worth
of the souls we are helping or the worth of the glorious message we are sharing
WITH them. We need to learn to listen to the promptings of the Spirit, listen to
the people we are talking with, and listen to our companions! LISTEN LISTEN
LISTEN! then share what you are inpired to share and USE THE SCRIPTURES! We are
definitely not perfect teachers, at least i am not! but the scriptures are
perfect! Nothing invites the Spirit quicker than reading scriptures, and singing
hymns with people! But this is all just my own opinion, draw what you will, and
ignore what you want, but i know this to be true!
Scripture of the Week (Stolen from
Elder Sawyer Hendrickson and shared with me by my mum):
1 Cor 3: 6-7 it says, "I have
planted, Apollo watered; but God gave the increase. So then neither is he that
planted anything, neither he that watered; But God that giveth the increase."
REMEMBER WHERE THE BLESSINGS COME FROM!!! This
is super important to me this week because it is something that our
investigators have been struggling with. They can tell that they are much more
blessed since they've started living their lives in accordance to the will of
the Lord, but they still think that it's because of themselves, not that it is
from God. EVERYTHING that we have though, has been given to us from our Heavenly
Father! Trying to look for the blessing in my life is something that i've been
trying to focus on more, and for the last week, i've been writing 5 new things
each night in my journal that i am grateful for. It makes me realize just how
amazing my days are, how much the Lord's hand is in my life, and how blessed i
really am! I suggest that if any are having an struggles with feeling down,
discouraged, or being prideful, think of your blessings! What tender mercies
from the Lord have you seen in your life TODAY?!
QUESTIONS from MUM:
You said there is a
foursome in your apartment. Do you interact with the other two sisters and where
are they from? Do you work the same areas? We have a four man flat, but the two other
sisters work in Tanzi, the neighboring area. We see them everyday and night, and
they are in our district, but we do not cover the same area (and/or ward). One,
Sister Gerraud-Carrier is from France, byway of Springville Utah. The other,
Sister Newman is from Bountiful, Utah, byway of China! She grew up in China, her
family lives there still, but she attended BYU and lived in Utah before her
mission. (Yes she is white).
What do you do
besides clean your apartment and do laundry on your P Day. Do you do grocery or
do you eat out most of the time, since it is cheaper to eat out. Do you have
Chinese breakfast and if so what are Chinese breakfast? What do lunch and dinner
consisted of when you to people's home to eat? On P-day we also do our grocery
shopping, any other shopping we desire, take naps, write letters (since we
cannot write letters any other day of the week), do our regular studies
(Personal, Companionship, and Language), and plan for our Wednesday Night
English Class. P-day ends at 6:00pm so we usually then go teaching or
proselyting until we return back to the flat at 9:00pm. Since we had the Mission
Tour on monday this week though, our P-Day is today (or Wednesday) so we will
have English class tonight instead of lessons with investigators or RCLAs. We
almost always eat breakfast inside, and lots of times lunch too. Since i'm still
training, we have extra study time inside, so we usually eat inside and then go
out and teach/proselyte. Chinese breakfast here is You Tiao (Deep fried Chinese scones) with Soymilk, or dumplings, rou
bao, etc. We usually eat eggs, cereal, or fruit though! We we eat at peoples
homes it consists of TONS of food! Rice, Noodles, Lots of different kinds of
meat (Pig leg, Pig knuckles, beef, Pig /or Beef intestines, Chicken, whole
Fish), and ALWAYS soup! (with turnips, fish/beef balls, duck/pork blood, tofu,
sometimes potatoes, and cabbage in it!). They like to tell you that you are fat
and need to loose weight, and then shove more and more food at you! Hahahhahaha
you have to LOVE them!! So great! and Yes Mum I eat EVERYTHING they give me! and
don't say "Yuck!" I'm very well mannered! and never burp or fart either! You can
tell them you don't want to eat rice though, and I've found that very effective.
More room for meat and veggies! without as much carbs! :) I gained 4 POUNDS last
week over new years since we were fed so much! But in the last 2 days I lost
it....so don't worry! hahahahahaha We went from meal appointmen to meal
appointment and I thought I was going to DIE!!!! but I handled it like a
champ....or a man....whichever...hahahaha
You park your bike
downstairs and leave your helmet with it, do you worry about theft, is the lock
sufficient, or there is not a problem in your area. We have boxes on the back of our bikes, so we
just put our helmets inside there. The lock is sufficient, and lot of people
don't even have locks! Some people have had problems with their bikes being
stolen, but I haven't heard of any problems in my area. Most missionaries paint
their bikes when they get them, but even those who haven't painted theirs yet,
haven't had problems.
You mentioned two Sister
Chen and their kids, do they have husbands, and if so are they members?
Both Chen Jie Mei's are
married, but their husbands are not members. Chen Jie Mei #1 is having some
problems because her husband does not live the Law of Chastity and drinks a lot
as well. We are praying for her to help her make good decisions, because she has
told him multiple times that if he doesn't change, she wants a divorce, but he
doesn't want one and tells her he will change, which he does for a little bit
before he goes back to his old ways. They have been married for 15+ years and
she is his 2nd wife. Chen Jie Mei #2 has one son and a husband, both are not
members. She really wants her sons to join the church (he's 14) but her husband
does not support it, so we will not teach him. If there is any protesting from
spouse or parents, we respect it and don't teach. Although this gospel message
is incredibly important, we also know that families are incredible important and
we do not want to cause contention in the family. When they are prepared, they
will accept the gospel and the amazing blessings that come with
it!
Chinese New Year is
celebrated for 15 days, will you and your comp be invited to a lot more dinners,
so the other two sisters get the same invitations? and do all four of you cover
the same ward or branch on Sundays? Since the other 2 sisters are not in our area,
they do not eat with us, but they do get ching-ed by their members and
investigators in their ward! The two elders who serve in our area usually got
invited to eat with us at the members houses though. We only cover one ward with
our 2 elders, and the Tanzi sisters cover their ward with their 2 elders. Some
missionary companionships have more than one ward/branch, but we each just have
one.
If anyone else has any questions, feel free to let
my mum know, and i'll answer them! :)
Mission Tour on Monday was AMAZING!!!
It ended up being the WHOLE MISSION instead of just the north half and then
south half at a time! So i got to see all my MTC friends like Dong Jie Mei and
Elder Gish!!! I was so happy to see them all :D It was an amazing meeting, and
we learned a lot! Elder Watson and Elder Evans both spoke to us, along with
President Bishop and all of their wives. We also took a picture as a whole
mission with them!!! That was interesting! We found out that with the increase
from all the new missionaries, by August we will have gone from 180-ish
missionaries, we will have about 220-ish! So about a 40% increase or so? I'm not
sure how solid those numbers are! hahahah but It's amazing and each week
president Bishop finds out more and more missionaries are coming!!! We're so
excited to what this all means to missionary work for the whole world! It is
incredible how much the youth of the church have responded so gallantly and how
amazing and worthy they all are! We have been told that we have so many amazing
missionaries coming in, so we out in the field really need to step it up and be
better than we are!!!!
FUNNY/AWKWARD MOMENTS:
***That awkward moment when you are eating
everything on the table except for the pig intestines but then the Amah
(grandma) keeps putting food into your bowl and telling you to EAT EAT EAT! and
she puts tons and tons of intestines in your bowl....so you grin, chew, swollow,
and EAT MORE!!! Woot woot!! They really aren't that bad! :)
***That awkward moment when at mission tour you
see a kid from back home and say "Hi Elder Gummow!" and he
goes...."Wait....what?!>.....YOU are here??!....wait why?!....oh this is just
too weird!" hahahaha what is with people from back home being so surprised to
see me on a mission....and in their mission no less?! hahahahaha
***That funny moment when EVERYONE you meet asks
you if you can teach their children english because they can see you are from
America....but you use it as a proselyting moment and advertise your FREE
english class!!! (PS while we're on this, go to our FB page and like us!!! at
englishclass.tw)
***That awkward moment when I just barely
advertised our English Class HERE ON MY BLOG!!
***That awkward moment when your on the bus up
the mountain to go to a dinner appointment and you're with the elders...one of
whom is 100% white and this group of kids starts talking about you and him in
Chinese behind you....but he has fantastic Chinese and Taiwanese and starts
talking to them and giving them english class tracts.....they were absolutely
amazed!!!
BIG NEWS OF THE WEEK!!!!:
We a baptism set for Saturday!!! Which is also
my companions 1 yr anniv on island and my 1 month anniv on island. We are
praying that Vicky (17) goes through with it, but she has had 3 bapt goals
already (one with each comp that sis xiong has had), but I KNOW THAT SHE WILL BE
BAPTIZED!!! I know this one is real! IT's gonna happen! I HAVE FAITH! WO YOU
XINXIN! (I have faith):)
But I'll let you all know next monday
what happens! :)
Well the days are long, but the work
is good. Real good. And there is nothing that has brought me joy such as this.
These people are our brothers and sisters and I have the honor of telling them
exactly who they, and we, all are. CHILDREN OF OUR HEAVENLY FATHER! That's kind
of a big deal! We're all kind of a big deal! although at the same time we are
"nothing." Like Elder Uchtdorf said, "That is one great paradox of man. Compared
to God we are nothing, but to him we mean EVERYTHING." We all come from a royal,
eternal line. Unfortunately so many people don't know that, but we have the
honour and priviledge to share with them where they come from, what they are
doing here, and what they have the potential to become. It is only through our
elder brother and Saviour Jesus Christ that we are able to do this. Him and
through His Atonement. What an amazing truth to know!! LETS ALL SHARE IT WITH
THE WORLD!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Remember that the Lord is watching over us and
helping us!! "For with God nothing shall be impossible."!!!!!
I LOVE YOU ALL and hope you all have just
fantastic, joy and missionary opportunity filled days this week! GOD LOVES YOU
ALL!!!
Love, Bao Jie Mei
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